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Terry Hernon MacDonald writes frequently about relationships. Her mission is to help single women to stop settling for substandard Romeos and to marry men who are truly worthy of them.

How to Attract Men
(When There Aren't Any Men to Attract)

You may think it's hard to meet a great guy if you live in a small town , or if you work in an office where you meet the same old people day in and day out. But lots of women in similar situations beat the odds. They manage to meet attractive men, fall in love, and get married. You can do it, too.

Here's how:

Definitely stop seeing your pool as limited. I don't care if you live in a town that consists of just you, a horse, and a post office. You're going to work with the law of attraction here. You are not going to be dissuaded by statistics.

First step: Forget about the apparent shortage of men. You're going to pretend that the very air you breathe is bursting with men. You're tripping all over them.

Close your eyes.

Everywhere you go, you see men. What's that like? Bring this image to life in your imagination.

See handsome men. Successful men. Honest men. Funny men. They're stepping aside and opening doors for you.

How does that feel?

Next step: Which of these men appeals to you most? Write down a list of his qualities. Is he honest, loyal, loving, reliable, successful, and fun? Is he handsome?

Are you attracted to him? What does that feel like?

Is he attracted to you? What does that feel like? (Feel it in your solar plexus.) Look like? (Man, he looks good coming toward you in that pair of jeans.) Smell like? (He's holding you. Smell the soap in his shirt.) Taste like? (His kiss, or a meal you're enjoying together.)

Again, you're working with the law of attraction here. And you'll soon find that it works.

It's key to bring this man to life in your imagination twice daily. Please don't do it once and mutter a week later, "It didn't work." Keep up your visualizations. They're critical to your success.

After a while, your subconscious will nudge you: Go here. Do this.

In addition to visualization, you might look into an online dating service, but only after you've been visualizing (in other words, actively attracting) for a while. Putting yourself in situations where you can meet new men helps, but it's not nearly as important as visualization.

Visualization convinces your subconscious mind that your relationship is real and has already come to pass. Your subconscious will then work on bringing that relationship to pass. You will find yourself in new and different situations, faced with new and different opportunities.

Visualize in earnest, and you will attract the relationship you desire. It's worked for countless other women, and it will work for you, too.
 

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