You may think it's hard to meet a great guy if you
live in a small town , or if you work in an office
where you meet the same old people day in and day
out. But lots of women in similar situations beat
the odds. They manage to meet attractive men, fall
in love, and get married. You can do it, too.
Here's how:
Definitely stop seeing your pool as limited. I
don't care if you live in a town that consists of
just you, a horse, and a post office. You're going
to work with the law of attraction here. You are
not going to be dissuaded by statistics.
First step: Forget about the apparent shortage of
men. You're going to pretend that the very air you
breathe is bursting with men. You're tripping all
over them.
Close your eyes.
Everywhere you go, you see men. What's that like?
Bring this image to life in your imagination.
See handsome men. Successful men. Honest men.
Funny men. They're stepping aside and opening doors
for you.
How does that feel?
Next step: Which of these men appeals to you
most? Write down a list of his qualities. Is he
honest, loyal, loving, reliable, successful, and
fun? Is he handsome?
Are you attracted to him? What does that feel
like?
Is he attracted to you? What does that feel like?
(Feel it in your solar plexus.) Look like? (Man, he
looks good coming toward you in that pair of jeans.)
Smell like? (He's holding you. Smell the soap in his
shirt.) Taste like? (His kiss, or a meal you're
enjoying together.)
Again, you're working with the law of attraction
here. And you'll soon find that it works.
It's key to bring this man to life in your
imagination twice daily. Please don't do it once and
mutter a week later, "It didn't work." Keep up your
visualizations. They're critical to your success.
After a while, your subconscious will nudge you:
Go here. Do this.
In addition to visualization, you might look into
an online dating service, but only after you've been
visualizing (in other words, actively attracting)
for a while. Putting yourself in situations where
you can meet new men helps, but it's not nearly as
important as visualization.
Visualization convinces your subconscious mind
that your relationship is real and has already come
to pass. Your subconscious will then work on
bringing that relationship to pass. You will
find yourself in new and different situations, faced
with new and different opportunities.
Visualize in earnest, and you will attract the
relationship you desire. It's worked for countless
other women, and it will work for you, too.